By Andrew Wong
1st Jan 2010
|Number Psychology and Energy Psychology Articles Series
Limiting Belief - the Danger, yet Unknown
NLP (Neuro Linguistic
SF (Solution Focus)
||Sharing with you learning on Energy
Psychology application (Dec, 2009).
Limiting beliefs, or more generally, negative thought, can do a lot of
harm to individuals / organizations.
When such thought is obvious, we can more easily understand its negative
consequences. e.g. "The world is a DANGEROUS place" may cause one to
withdraw and dis-connect from all things and people.
The difficulty about Limiting Belief is that it is subtle, not obvious
to the person concerned. And such belief acts as a driver in action,
behavior and more action and more such behavior - a vicious circle.
It is embedded in the subconscious, hence not in the full awareness of
the person or organization.
Hence year after year, the person / organization action and behavior is governed by
The danger of Limiting Belief becomes obvious in an Energy Psychology
case of a cancer patient.
During Energy Psychology coaching session, a pattern emerged from the
person that he has been governed by such limiting belief throughout the
major part of his life - especially the difficult and negative past
experience that formulated or reinforced such limiting belief.
The belief system goes like this ....
"Life is hard. I must struggle very hard to put in my best effort. I
need to have strong will and determination to succeed. And I EXPECT good
outcome. Rightly so, since I put in all my heart and soul. Failing which
(with negative outcome) I feel very dis-appointed and frustrated."
In the above belief system, the person may use all his bull force,
energy, concentration to struggle hard with determination on something
to achieve or accomplish (e.g. career, business, resolving health
issues) – such effort itself is already draining off a lot of energy if
it is not done with calmness and peace, and such depletion of energy
will cause stress, and other negative emotions, or sickness or invite
And with full expectation for the positive outcome / results, it creates
enormous pressure to oneself.
When the result is not positive as expected, more energy is depleted
with dis-appointment and frustration.
This is a sure recipe for trouble – sickness, disease, or even worsened
performance and results for individuals / organization. (i.e. with
collective limiting beliefs at play)
This is also an example how so called Positive Thinking is used wrongly,
as it becomes counter-productive.
In Energy Psychology, we help the person / organization to reverse or balance the
limiting belief, after helping to make clear identification of it, and
its consequences. We do not use Will Power, as we do not speak to
"rational mind", but approach at the level of the energy field.
We help to install a new belief system, e.g.
I can choose to believe
"I put in my best effort with calmness and peace and leave the outcome
to the Divine, always with gratitude to whatever the outcome turns up to
I met several cases of patients (cancer or serious sickness) who could
not let go, spending all their energy (money, efforts) to find the BEST
treatment to fight the disease, not accepting things as they are. They
make life more difficult to live for themselves and those around them.
Likewise I observe organizational behavior in the similar way, losing
focus on what is of importance to their business goals.
More sharing of learning later...
EP Coach, Andrew
Introducing EP Coaching to Corporation
Coaching Service for Corporation (6-8 months follow up services)
A new service is launched - "NP-Your
Potentialities Report Writing Service"
Number Psychology training for the public
refer : “Number Psychology” (English), "數字心理學" (Chinese),
with Participants feedback
Energy Psychology training for the public
refer : “Energy Psychology”
(English), "能量心理學" (Chinese),
with Cases (English),
Or, your are welcome to communicate with your HR Director / manager to bring
this training to your organization / corporation.
Numerology (Number Psychology, helps to get more information for effective coaching like the above. Unlike many profiling tools used by corporation / companies
(more expensive too), it is a much simpler and effective tool, with
revelation of more hidden messages.
Energy Psychology helps to balance the negative energies.
This coach is most grateful to the hundreds of clients (public and
corporate) who provide greater learning for the coach in the coaching
sessions, thus gaining more experience and insights on what and how
coaching works. As a result, this coach is more ready to provide
services to the public and corporation more effectively.
While the public continues to benefit from the one-to-one coaching
carried out (refer Energy Psychology Coaching Service,
and [Money Clinic] Coaching Service)
, the corporation and organization can benefit from customized training
on Mindset Emotion and Energy Psychology Training to develop internal
skills as masterful coaches. (refer Specially for
Organization / Corporation). Currently a long term contract
is ongoing with a corporation on one to one coaching to the management,
and developing them to be masterful internal coaches, thus creating a
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