Pursuing a goal has the advantage of setting a
direction in life, thereby making every step much more purposeful. However,
how one defines the goal and how one goes about it can have serious impact
on the outcome of the goal.
Ideally when the goal is well defined, realistic, and
the pursuit of it is carried out in a relaxed, joyful and enjoyable manner,
the outcome can be better and more rewarding than expected.
The reverse is true also. Struggling so hard to realize the goal, more
energies get discharged, creating un-balanced energy field in the pursuit,
resulting in sickness or more strenuous and stressful effort to get result
and / or attract more negative events in life - personal or business.
I have several clients, or coachee, having the above challenges, reviewed
during the Number Psychology and Energy Psychology coaching sessions. The
followings are just some general behaviors of some cases.
(Note: Words in [Brackets] are attributes of the clients' neurological
Clients have high [ambitions], goals to achieve in life, usually in the
areas of financial success, wealth creation. They also have health issues,
like high stress, ailments, sickness. Currently they may have high financial
commitment, little or no such problem. Some already succeed in many aspects
of financial gain.
Coaching conversations review the following
Number Psychology and Belief Systems
- "I need to earn a lot of money".
With sky as the limit, they have difficulty to face [reality] as what is
considered minimal requirement to support a preferred basic lifestyle, now
till the projected future for self and loved ones (i.e. no supporting data),
and just a general idea that the more the money the better. Nor do they have
any meaningful purpose of the wealth creation i.e. more money for what?
The above belief drives the clients into stressful action day after day.
Often they are successful in business / investment - making the money, with
great stress, little or no joy in life and they believe they still have to
make more money.
- "Money will solve all my problems."
Clients presenting problems can be financial commitment they are currently
facing, perceived or imaginary problems in the future. These create a sense
of [in-stability] in themselves, they don't feel at home with themselves,
How could they - when their mental images are full of problems, real or
imaginary, and only money can provide the solutions. They long for
[stability] [establishment] yet they are in a flux, they cannot feel their
own feet on the ground.
- "Low risk Low Return, High Risk High Return"
Clients subscribe to the predominant mindsets - "Low risk Low Return, High
Risk High Return". Hence in order to achieve high return (more money) and
yet have fear of high risk, they resort to hard work in order to get what
they want. Their minds will not explore the notion of "Low Risk High Return"
and find ways to make it possible.
- "Life is a learning process, we can rise up when we FALL"
They believe [failures are part of the learning process], One should welcome
failures, They may experience a lot of set-backs, robbery, accidents,
bankruptcy, betrayal from business partners. Others sympathize them having
series of bad luck. However these client put up fronts that they are
alright, they would not get defeated. They attribute these to positive
thinking and feel proud of it. Upon careful listening, their emphasis is
more on the failure, the FALL, the negatives. Welcoming failures become
their subconscious goals.
- "I can take the whole world no matter what".
They exert strong self confidence and determination. They can become rigid
and stubborn and not flexible. With such belief, they expand their energies
outward, create unbalanced energy in themselves. Unbalanced energy, negative
in nature, attracts other negative energy to balance. For example when one
is very tired and stressed while driving, the chance of creating a car
accident is high. the clients may not be aware that the many negative
happening in their life, is a result of their beliefs.
When the above belief systems reinforce each other and drive the behavior,
it is not difficult to see the consequences i.e. stressful and struggling
life, with little or no joy, and with negative events experienced.
Energy Psychology healing
The above limiting beliefs do not drop form the sky onto the persons. They
get conditioned, by events or series of events in the past, negative events.
Energy Psychology is used to trace the source of these negative events that
block the energy flow, Qi, in the concerned person energy field. When higher
consciousness is realized on the source of the stories, Qi or energy flow is
activated. The clients usually feel more relaxed, the mental and
psychological burdens get released, resulting in clients becoming more alert
With the above accomplished, the client is more ready, being more alert and
resourceful, to explore alternatives and options to move forward, to design
new set of belief systems to guide them in the day to day action, with
higher creativity, joy and calmness in mind to produce the intended outcome.
A positive energy loop is thus created.
EP Coach, Andrew