A few days ago I completed 12 coaching cases in one day, each case took about 30 min. as per the event requirement, i.e. stream of visitors came to have a brief experience on coaching.
Number Psychology tool was used, that greatly helped to focus on the underlying issues and structure more quickly.
Some sharing of issues and learning gathered.
Note: Words in brackets [ ] are attributes of some Numbers.
Challenges / Issues presented:
- Loss of direction in life
- Mid-life crisis
- Uncertainty about change of career
- Anxiety about starting a new business
- Wanting to write off last 40 years of “Life is a Failure”
- Difficulties to find a life-long partner
- Rejection of a robotic life to care-free life, which becomes another problem
- Financial difficulty
- Outflow of money is faster than in-flow
- Relationship issues
- Easily gets bored, need many different activities and more freedom and become confused about life goal.
- Health issue - diabetes
Learning and Realization
- Habitual repetition of the past pattern of personality and approaches to life that creates today problem, yet unknowingly
- Difficulty to balance between the [Freedom] and [Stability]
- Unwise conclusion about past mistakes that contributes to today problem
- Expectation of something with a rigid set of mindset
- Not realizing the need of some [System] and [Stability] before one can enjoy the full degree of [Freedom] and [Creativity].
- Not realizing self-sabotaging pattern with a negative buried image, yet wanting a positive outcome
- Not fully conscious of need of [Discipline] in order to achieve [Freedom]
- Not aware of negative experiences during childhood that contributes to today problem
- Not able to face Reality as it is, and continue to avoid and deny presenting problem
- Fear of rejection and being abandoned, and continue to withdraw and hide in a castle.
- How different aspects of the personalities create the present problem e.g. lack of [Self confidence] [Un-decisiveness] [Avoidance of problem by wanting freedom to do many other things] [Withdrawal into own inner world for comfort, mistaken as peace-seeking]
- Compulsion to [serve other people] and forget own needs till own threshold being stressed and become frustrated and give up.
- Difficulty in [expressing] one’s own inner feelings and emotion and resort to accusation and attack on another person.
- Resentment against another person creates behavior that self-sabotaged
- Conclusion and belief system created arising from childhood negative experience that sub-consciously operate on today living, creating today problems.
- New choice of career, being an artist, with Care-Free attitudes to create and express and such strategy is also used in care-free money spending and contribute to today financial problem.
- Using meditation, yoga, healing activities as escapism – not facing reality squarely, thus going against the hidden potentials of manifestation that can make contribution to mankind.
Action and Implementation
In all cases, when the client-coachee sees the underlying structure that create today problem, he or she brainstorms some action plan for implementation.
A range of action …
- Review and modify a belief system e.g. “Life is Free and Go with the Flow”, the client is to add some conditions to the statement.
- Taking action on doing physical exercise with schedule and discipline to overcome the presenting health problem
- Read books on successful people who had overcome the same mental, emotional and psychological obstacles.
- Deliberately choosing situations to experience and test one’s self confidence, or self expression or discipline or boredom … and not running away from the negatives.
- Trying out the same strategy (that previously created the problems) but with higher consciousness on other variables so as to identify real causes of the problem.
- Action plan that can generate and reflect self-love.
- Practicing self expression of feelings and emotions, without using language that accuses or attacks the other person.
- Accept and forgive the past negatives and create new attitudes to move on with life.
- Action on creating some stability in order to enjoy full expression of Freedom and Creativity later.
- Design new goals or focus that have greater possibility to engage the other party who currently is part of the relationship problem.
EP Coach, Andrew
Introducing EP Coaching to Corporation
Coaching Service for Corporation (6-8 months follow up services)
A new service is launched - "NP-Your
Potentialities Report Writing Service"
Number Psychology training for the public
refer : “Number Psychology” (English), "數字心理學" (Chinese),
with Participants feedback
Energy Psychology training for the public
refer : “Energy Psychology”
(English), "能量心理學" (Chinese),
with Cases (English),
Or, your are welcome to communicate with your HR Director / manager to bring
this training to your organization / corporation.
Numerology (Number Psychology, helps to get more information for effective coaching like the above. Unlike many profiling tools used by corporation / companies
(more expensive too), it is a much simpler and effective tool, with
revelation of more hidden messages.
Energy Psychology helps to balance the negative energies.
This coach is most grateful to the hundreds of clients (public and
corporate) who provide greater learning for the coach in the coaching
sessions, thus gaining more experience and insights on what and how
coaching works. As a result, this coach is more ready to provide
services to the public and corporation more effectively.
While the public continues to benefit from the one-to-one coaching
carried out (refer Energy Psychology Coaching Service,
and [Money Clinic] Coaching Service)
, the corporation and organization can benefit from customized training
on Mindset Emotion and Energy Psychology Training to develop internal
skills as masterful coaches. (refer Specially for
Organization / Corporation). Currently a long term contract
is ongoing with a corporation on one to one coaching to the management,
and developing them to be masterful internal coaches, thus creating a
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