A few coaching cases carried out during and after Number Psychology training conducted yesterday at Batu Pahat. This write up is to share with you the overall learning. Note: words in brackets indicate attributes of Numbers, and number of times of the Numbers of the client.

Case 1: -Balancing Ambitions with Realities

Client presenting problem is as follow:

Having high {ambitions (3x)} to create businesses, yet felt so many obstacles and constraints: e.g. family commitment, with new born baby, spouse’s different requirements etc. resulting in stress and at times very emotional. These further affect relationship with the spouse and family.

Certain aspects of the client personality further add more problems to the above, i.e. being very {idealistic and perfectionist (2x)}, the client has difficulty to {accept (2x)} mistakes, or small deviation. Further more the client likes {freedom}, meaning dislikes {constraints and discipline }.

The client childhood was very {unstable} due to problems between parents. With determination to build and reinforce {self confidence}, the client channels energies outwards : like the above, having high ambitions, wanting to achieve successes. These result in generating much negative energies to oneself : stress, bodily discomfort, uneasy sleep, negative feelings etc.

The coaching session was done in 20 min. guided by the client’s numerological number for coaching questions to be created for the client
to get the whole story out.. Client's numerological number is 42/6,with two (1) and three (9)

When the client sees how the personalities affect the current situations, i.e. a bigger picture, more objectivity is instilled and hence more calmness. There is a deeper realization that there is no such thing as perfect personality, but how realities are to be faced and balanced.


Case 2: Childhood Imprint

The client just started a new career 4 months ago, overseas. (back for holidays).

The client first few presenting problem was on difficulty to communicate with the mother. On this issue, the client seemed upset but not too obvious, as the client presented the situation calmly, as if a matter of fact.

She often feels un-easy, not at ease being alone, needs to occupy herself with many things to busy with.

Being the youngest in the family, there are 5-6 years gap between her older sisters. She felt especially lonely when older sisters left home for further study.

Described her childhood as normal and ok, though being {rebellious {2x}} towards eldest sisters, but later, relationship went well with them. In fact older sisters often acts as communication bridge between the client and the mother, as the later did not fully understand her inner needs and feelings.

While showing my full presence with her in listening to her stories, she began to get in touch with her feeling of sadness. Energy Psychology coaching is applied to instill calmness and inner peace in her, to balance the negative emotion of sadness.

Guided by her numerological chart, a story is composed based on the above skeleton information given. Her numerological number is 30/3, and with two (1) and two (3).

Being youngest and no peer play-mates, as her sisters are 5-6 year old older, she tried to prove her {ego and independence (2x)} being rebellious to catch her sisters attention.

She felt her mother did not pay too much attention to her, yet she could not and did not know how to {express (2x) } her inner need to communicate with her mother.

She is especially {sensitive (2x)} and {perfectionist}, as often wondered why her mother is not like the mother character in the fairy tale stories, or movie of ideal mother, and she feels shy when classmates say good things about their mothers.

Again with a larger picture painted about her personality and current situations, and realization that the unhappy child is still living vividly in her memories, thus affecting her today behavior, the client is more sure to let go of the past the move on with the life.

Again the above session took 20 min.

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